The artist firmly believed that love had the power to heal his partner’s illness. She made him vow not to withdraw into solitude but to return to his craft—a promise he kept.
After stepping away from the music band, Journey, the ’80s frontman fell for a woman battling a terminal illness. Their connection altered the course of his life, and two decades later, her influence led him back to the stage.
Though he walked away from music, the songwriter’s legacy never faded. His hit song “Don’t Stop Believin'” remained unavoidable, resurging through “Glee” and pop culture. Despite years of silence—aside from occasional collaborations and interviews—his influence endured through the song’s continued popularity.
While his music remained ever-present, the singer’s personal connection to it had faded. In a 2018 interview, he admitted, “I would say I was completely burned out, with touring, recording, writing music incessantly. I was having an emotional PTSD breakdown in music.”
The celebrity clarified that he wasn’t complaining but simply expressing that he had lost his deep connection to the music he had loved since he was seven. His love for music had once been unwavering, rooted in a simple dream.
When asked what he had hoped for upon joining Journey in another interview, the music star explained, “I just wanted to write music with the guys that mattered, that people would love and embrace and take into their hearts. There’s nothing else that meant more to me than to be part of that.”
With him leading the way, the band dominated the charts in the 1980s and regained commercial success in the 1990s—until he walked away. Years on the road had taken a toll. Exhaustion set in, and a severe hip injury only made things worse.
When asked if his heart was truly the issue and not his hip, he admitted, “It was my heart. It became a group decision, major surgery, and I wasn’t very happy about that. So I chose to put it off and decided when to do it, and they checked out some other singers, and we went our separate ways.”
Eventually, the band moved forward with Arnel Pineda, whose voice closely resembled his. Aside from a brief appearance at the band’s 2005 Walk of Fame ceremony, the composer disappeared from the music world entirely.
When asked if he ever questioned his decision, he said, “No. I just wanted to move forward.” However, leaving wasn’t easy, “It was tough, really tough.” Adjusting to life outside the music industry was challenging, but he found ways to cope.
When asked how, the “Open Arms” singer said, “Therapy! Went back to my hometown, went to the fair in the summertime that comes to Hanford.” Finding comfort in the familiar helped him adjust, but life had more in store.
Through mutual friends, he met Kellie Nash, a psychologist featured in “Five,” a made-for-TV film about cancer’s impact. They connected instantly.
Notably, marriage had never been part of his story. “I was too scared of it after what I watched my parents go through,” the singer admitted. “And I was around a band that went through several divorces in the course of our success. I saw them lose half of everything multiple times.”
Though he had meaningful relationships, Steve Perry had never experienced a love that completely overwhelmed him. However, his perspective changed the moment he saw Nash.
In 2011, his friend Patty Jenkins, director of “Wonder Woman,” showed him a cut of “Five.” When Nash appeared on-screen, something about her struck him instantly.
Unable to ignore the feeling, Perry asked Jenkins if she had Nash’s email. She hesitated, knowing he wasn’t the type to make such a request, but before agreeing, she revealed heartbreaking news—Nash’s cancer had returned and spread.
For a moment, the musician considered letting go of the idea. He had already endured so much loss. But then, he refused to walk away. The California native told Jenkins to send the email. He and Nash met for dinner, and their chemistry deepened. Knowing her time was limited didn’t change the way he felt.
“You want to know the truth? I’ve not said this to anybody yet: I believed our love would cure her cancer. I really did,” Perry admitted in an interview. Their love, though brief, was profound.
“We sat in our tiny apartment in New York—a very expensive small box—and she said: ‘This might take me, but it’ll never be able to touch our love,'” he remembered. That realization, both emotional and physical, was unlike anything he had experienced before.
Losing Nash was inevitable, but Perry never expected how profoundly she would change him. “[…] When someone who has stage 4 cancer turns to you and says, ‘I love you,’ you’re gonna feel it for the first time, which is what happened,” he shared.
For a while, a clinical trial gave them hope, but by the fall of 2012, her condition declined, forcing a conversation that would alter his path.
“One night she said that, ‘If something was to ever happen to me, promise that you won’t go back into isolation, for I think that would make this all for naught.’ I had to make the promise, and I said, ‘I promise,'” Perry revealed.
When she passed in December 2012, the weight of that vow stayed with him. He spent two years in mourning, describing his grief as “a whole new level of broken heart.”
Eighteen months after her passing, he returned to the stage. His first studio album in over two decades, “Traces,” was more than just a creative endeavor—it was a promise fulfilled.
Perry believed Nash would have loved his return to music, though he had no concrete plans for a tour. When asked about reuniting with “Journey,” he brushed it off with humor but remained focused on the present.
While millions still hoped for his comeback, he left the door slightly open, emphasizing that his priority was staying true to what felt purposeful in the moment. Perry returned to the music scene, creating on his own terms.
He made it clear that his comeback wasn’t about money but passion. “Maybe it took a broken heart to get there, a completely broken heart,” he reiterated. Though the pain of losing Nash remained, he accepted it. “Yes! Yes, it is still broken. But it’s open. That’s okay.”
Though years have passed, Perry remains a cherished figure in music and in the hearts of his fans. Now 76, he embraces his gray hair, a look that has sparked admiration across social media.
“You look so awesome with gray hair!” one fan gushed on Instagram, while another praised, “Steve, your hair looks lovely.” Someone called him “the silver fox who sings effortlessly.”
Meanwhile, others focused on his expressive nature, with one noting, “Your eyes smile so genuinely. Touches my soul [sic].” Others appreciated more than just his appearance, recognizing his enduring influence. One fan declared, “LEGEND. JUST BREATHTAKING,” while another praised, “The best voice ever😍.”
Steve Perry’s journey back to music was shaped by love, loss, and a promise he refused to break. Though his heart remains broken, he has found purpose in creating once again—on his own terms.
